Spoilers / Softeners
If you are triggered by any word or conversation, it is ultimately your own responsibility to take care of yourself. Clear the screen, leave the room, or even turn off your computer. Self-care is nobody's responsibility but your own. However, we can sometimes work together to be supportive and help each other avoid triggers.
Spoilers / softeners are used in certain chat rooms (1 and 3) and folders (marked with a '*') for highly triggering words. These words include:
The FAQ page in the forums shows how to use the censoring feature which allows you to better control the content you are exposed to.
The admins are allowed (but not obligated) to edit, move, or delete posts at our discretion. We will inform you if such action is taken.
Please put "trigger warnings" on extremely difficult posts. These include ones with references to suicide, self-harm/self-injury, ritual abuse, and posts with sexual content. A trigger warning is basically "**** mentions 'difficult content' ****" so people can make informed choices about whether they are in a safe place to read.
Thank you for helping to keep the site safe for everyone.