Survivors Chat Rooms

Survivors Chat is a free, moderated chat community where survivors of rape, sexual abuse, and other forms of abuse can talk in real time with people who understand. Whether you want to share something heavy, ask for support, or simply be around others who get it, there's a room for you - and you're welcome any time of day or night. Conversations happen among peers rather than professionals, in a space designed to feel safe, private, and gentle. Registration is quick and free, and you're always in control of how much you share.

You must register before chatting. Please choose one name only. Repeated name changes may result in expulsion from the rooms.

All accounts must be validated. Unvalidated accounts will be auto-deleted after 7 days. Please check your junkmail folder if you have not received a validation email.

Our Chat Rooms

Open Access

1 - Lobby

Our general room and the best place to start. The Lobby is for everyday conversation, checking in, and offering or finding support on a wide range of topics. Because members of all ages may be present, we ask everyone to use gentle language and keep things welcoming for those who may be new or having a hard day.

2 - Kitchen Table

A room for the deeper, harder conversations. Gather round the Kitchen Table when you need to talk openly about abuse, rape, and the experiences that come with them, alongside others who won't flinch. It's a space for honesty and mutual support, held with care by our community and moderators.

Special Password Needed

3 - Littles Safe Room

Safe place for littles (child alters) to play, make friends, and talk.

4 - Tough Topics

Home to our scheduled chats and focused discussions on tougher subjects, with a break room for stepping back when you need a personal time-out. It's a place to go deeper with structure and support. Access opens automatically to eligible members after 30 days, along with the Tough Topics area in our forums.

5 - Adults Only

An adults-only room where conversations may touch on sexual topics. By entering, you confirm that you are 18 or older and understand the nature of the discussions here. Access is available to members of our Adult Discussions forum; contact us to request it.


Note: Please ask in the main room before private messaging. Do not over use the private message feature. Unauthorized use or over use may result in suspension of the private message function.

For moderating purposes, these rooms are English only.


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Protected Rooms Help

To obtain a Room 3 password you must be a member for at least 30 days. Contact us for access.

To obtain a Room 4 password you must be a member for at least 30 days. If appropriate, you will automatically be granted access to the Tough Topics folder in forums. There is no need to contact us.

To obtain a Room 5 password you must be a member of the Adult Discussions forums folder. Contact us for access.